What it takes to join The League

I write often about a date I had with someone in 2015.  She's the one who said that she did not compete for men to me, twice.  I think, after she got her problems sorted out, they let her in The League.  When I saw her in 2021 at an event where I sold my comics, she acted very happy to see me, and interacted with me in a way that indicated she had knowledge of The League's ways.  So that's an example of one type of woman who can gain admittance to The League.  At this same event in 2021, one of the women who organized the event interacted with me as if she were in on it too.  She had no romantic or sexual interest in me, but she played the role of benefactor and admirer of my comics and of a general friendly face and supporter.  So she got in too.

Just because I figure that Schmaylor Schmift may not have passed muster for membership in The League, that doesn't mean she's not deserving of my utmost respect, care, and regard.  She has a lot of men with mental illness diagnoses similar or identical to mine menace her in very shitty, dangerous ways, and I feel bad for her.  Schmaylor may continue to read this blog and whatnot in oder to let herself know that not all mentally ill men who think about her a lot are someone she has to worry about.  She may even be fixated on me, just not in a romantic way, probably.  That's cool.  With that in mind, I can accept the possibility that I will never meet her in person, much less date her, for crying out loud.  All good.  Best of luck to you, Schmaylor Schmift!