I think I will go ahead and try to patronize that business at the times I knew that young woman to work there. There are variables in play that have nothing to do with either of us, though. The main variable involves the coronavirus situation and whatever will happen with the spread of the variants, the lifting of the mask mandate in Texas, and how all that affects the dally rates of infections in Travis County. That's all completely out of mine and this young woman's hands. The good news involves the rapidly increasing vaccine rollout. I'm going to be eligible in this state for a vaccination soon, though she will not, which sucks big time. Also, she might have quit that job by now, for all I know.
When I looked at my last post and saw the part about following her lead on whether to engage with her at all, that convinced me to try to check things out. I looked at that post and saw an overall willingness on my part to tune in to these women who interest me and really try to figure out whether they wanted me to engage with them or not. I said I wouldn't send Daria any more emails because she didn't write me back that one time, for example. And I said I wouldn't try to to just go for it and ask baristas I talk to out on dates because I got shot down trying to do that all those years ago. I think my approach to these woman reflects an appropriate amount of caution in approaching them, and also a willingness to accept a outcome where I don't get with them. I can only think this careful, conscientious approach to other women would also reflect in how I approach this young woman at this business whom I go on and on about.
When I looked at my last post and saw the part about following her lead on whether to engage with her at all, that convinced me to try to check things out. I looked at that post and saw an overall willingness on my part to tune in to these women who interest me and really try to figure out whether they wanted me to engage with them or not. I said I wouldn't send Daria any more emails because she didn't write me back that one time, for example. And I said I wouldn't try to to just go for it and ask baristas I talk to out on dates because I got shot down trying to do that all those years ago. I think my approach to these woman reflects an appropriate amount of caution in approaching them, and also a willingness to accept a outcome where I don't get with them. I can only think this careful, conscientious approach to other women would also reflect in how I approach this young woman at this business whom I go on and on about.
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