I will say this, though. She MIGHT actually be trying to follow my lead in something I brought up right away a couple of weeks back. That has to do with my efforts to keep MYSELF at arms's length from HER. Mind you, not keeping HER at arm's length from ME, as if I'm just too cool for her, but the other way around. I think some of what I've experienced of her these past couple of weeks might result from an effort by her to keep HERSELF at arm's length from ME. If that's true, the effort by both of us to do this towards the other is working like a dream, because I, for one, feel more emotionally close to HER than ever right now.