Don't get me wrong. Any attractive young woman in my world that I like very much can still do whatever the hell she wants. I''m just not signing up for my end of the bargain. I have no interest in trying to be a good guy and work things out. I don't see myself in a situation where "all I have to do" is play my cards right, and I can date someone in my world I really, really like. If I really did see myself in a situation where I thought someone found themselves as free as a bird on the dating scene, and they really liked me, and they let me know it, then I would probably have a strong desire to play my cards right. No situation like that exists for me at this time.
Understand this. By refusing to keep my end of the Unavailable Woman Deal up, I can better free myself from any feelings of resentment and animosity towards some love interest that would likely come up when said love interest would then proceed to do whatever the hell she wanted to. That young woman at that business who remained on my docket for a full THREE YEARS certainly did whatever the hell she wanted in regards to how she dated other men besides me the whole time. But when I approached her for social reasons last October, I did so with the experience of coming and going as I pleased as far as whether I patronized her place of employment when I knew her to work there. I possessed a strong desire towards the later part of that ordeal to slow things way, way down, and pick my spots to act. I wound up inviting her to my comic book sale, and my invitation to her came off as if we'd just met for the first time then and there.
Right now, I find myself free of love interests. The one person I looked up online recently had photos up of her with her boyfriend on her social media page. I think of that young woman nowadays more than any other, but she's no love interest. She might not even like her boyfriend, but she might wind up dating someone else besides me if that's the case. I don't see myself as having any kind of inside track with her. No need for me to sign on for the Unavailable Woman Deal in regards to her.