When those young, very attractive women started in on me at that one business in 2014, the virgin girl kicked it off. After I figured out that she just wanted to run some scam on me, a scam that involved her representing herself as available and interested when in truth she was neither, I became aware of the notion that many of her fellow employees thought of her as a genuine possibility for me. In other words, these fellow employees did not have it in for me at all. When I first became aware of this girl's attempt at psychological aggression towards me, the prospect that all of these fellow employees of hers allied themselves with her aggression frightened me a great deal. Only in the act of busting her game did it dawn on me that these fellow employees I had suspicions about all thought they were doing me some kind of favor, and that this girl's game caught them unawares much more so that it did me. Both ends against the middle.
Over time, as more young girls at this business lined up to try me (the gunfighter mentality taking hold), some employees came to realize that I possessed the greatest ability to figure where these girls were really coming from with the attentions they paid to me. My orientation that helped me so much in figuring these girls out involved the notion that I would just have a willingness to let opportunities to get with these girls just slip through my fingers. In adopting this stance, I demonstrably showed that I could accept an outcome where me and these girls did not become boyfriend and girlfriend. In showing that I could accept an outcome where we did not become boyfriend and girlfriend, I could look out for their best interests as well as mine. I didn't think it was in their best interests to succeed in doing some vicious takedown of me, because that just has the potential to provoke retaliation and bad feelings all around.
Fortunately, I don't suspect any young, very attractive women in my world of having these kinds of predatory agendas towards me nowadays. The worst I have to say about anyone these days involves the notion that two young, very attractive women may have feelings for me that they feel some embarrassment about. Like I said in my last post, I could be totally full of shit about this notion too. At any rate, the methods I employed at getting at the truth of those girls intentions at that one business might come into play with these girls in my world now. In the case of both of these girls, that would involve pretty much leaving them alone and just kind of making observations, and making my decisions about them based on these observations. Like I said, since I don't feel as if I need to address any aggression from either of them, I'm inclined to just leave both of them alone for keeps. It's their choice whether or not they want to love me back, and if the answer is no from both of them, then so be it.
Over time, as more young girls at this business lined up to try me (the gunfighter mentality taking hold), some employees came to realize that I possessed the greatest ability to figure where these girls were really coming from with the attentions they paid to me. My orientation that helped me so much in figuring these girls out involved the notion that I would just have a willingness to let opportunities to get with these girls just slip through my fingers. In adopting this stance, I demonstrably showed that I could accept an outcome where me and these girls did not become boyfriend and girlfriend. In showing that I could accept an outcome where we did not become boyfriend and girlfriend, I could look out for their best interests as well as mine. I didn't think it was in their best interests to succeed in doing some vicious takedown of me, because that just has the potential to provoke retaliation and bad feelings all around.
Fortunately, I don't suspect any young, very attractive women in my world of having these kinds of predatory agendas towards me nowadays. The worst I have to say about anyone these days involves the notion that two young, very attractive women may have feelings for me that they feel some embarrassment about. Like I said in my last post, I could be totally full of shit about this notion too. At any rate, the methods I employed at getting at the truth of those girls intentions at that one business might come into play with these girls in my world now. In the case of both of these girls, that would involve pretty much leaving them alone and just kind of making observations, and making my decisions about them based on these observations. Like I said, since I don't feel as if I need to address any aggression from either of them, I'm inclined to just leave both of them alone for keeps. It's their choice whether or not they want to love me back, and if the answer is no from both of them, then so be it.
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