Okay, I won't get a $2 comic book either

https://youtu.be/mvdKUxW44Wk  The link is to a YouTube post about a woman whose husband stalked and manipulated her into marrying him.  I don't like controlling behavior in women.  If that young woman wants to go out with me, she will have to ask me out.  We can have one date.  It can be a coffee date.  She can bring a friend or friends.  She can set up the date at her place of employment to where she doesn't have to give me contact information.  I don't know if this story in this video is true, but I find it disturbing.  If this young woman does not want to go out with me, I'm okay with that, and I will not ask her out at her place of employment.  I will do nothing to embarrass this person in public.  If this young woman puts a vibe out she does not want to interact with me at all, I will patronize another business that offers the same services.  Let me make myself clear.  I identify with the woman in that Reddit post that the guy reads in the YouTube video.