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Muddying the waters

8/12/2019

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My last post talked about my efforts to take the high road in difficult situations with women.  The reason I try to do that, even with someone I suspect does not have my best interests at heart, has to do with perceived opportunities.  I've often talked about the crude sexual proposition I made towards a young woman in 1986.  That did not solve any problems I had with her, to put it mildly.  One of the big problems I created came from the belief that I may have undermined a genuine opportunity to connect with that young woman.  I'm pretty convinced these days that no such opportunity existed, and that no amount of loving patience would have afforded me one.  But, my crude sexual proposition muddied the waters to the extent that I will never know, really.

I think about that in my dealings with women in my day to day world.  I don't really believe I have a chance with any young women in my world that I'm attracted to, but I don't want to muddy the waters with bad personal conduct towards them either.  Which brings me to this point.  I've talked about how I decided to avoid patronizing a certain business at a certain time of day so that I could stay away from a certain young female employee.  Recently I decided to go ahead and move more freely about my world and lift that restriction.  I'm no mind reader, but I kind of get the impression that some other employees don't approve of my recent decision.

I really have no desire to bother this young woman at her place of employment or anywhere else.  I have no desire to try to buddy up  to her, nor do I have any desire to behave in a more negative way towards her.  I think I can take the high road in regards to her without trying to go out of my way to prove I'm a great guy and all that B.S.  The worst thing I do these days towards women in dodgy situations is withdraw in an effort to get a clearer picture of what all goes on with this or that person.  I've already done that, and I have no desire to engage with this young woman in either a positive or negative way.

 
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