This girl I'm talking about, and a former male friend with whom I ended our deal after many years of friendship, really expected people such as myself to just love them no matter how they behaved towards me and others around us, or what their general attitude displayed about themselves. I can only conclude that people like this want, expect, and feel as if they are entitled to unconditional love. Unconditional love only exists, in my mind, in the relationship from a parent to their child, typically.
I think this young woman whom I go on about might expect that kind of thing from me. Now, she might not be the total freak about this kind of love that these former friends I describe were, but from me at least, yeah maybe. She might be more realistic about the kinds of love she can receive from people such as her real boyfriends, though. She might realize that she has to meet certain expectations in her relationships with people like that, but she might really, really expect total, unconditional love and acceptance from someone like me. I'm not prepared to give such a person that kind of love anymore.