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Like a parent to a child

9/14/2020

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I promised I would not get ugly about anyone who may read these posts, and I will try to keep my promise.  In my dealings with women such as the one I go on about so much, as well as my dealings with friends, both male and female, whom I've had in the past that remind me of this young woman, I've found a thing about them.  I had this one female friend in the nineties who would talk about how cool she was and how she would be shitty to people around her and go on and on in that vein, at length.  Whenever I would attempt to call her out for this stuff, she would act really surprised and sometimes hurt that I would object to her whole line.  Seriously.  So, it was not as if she just didn't care what others thought of her.  It was not as if she could take or leave someone like me, and therefore she could say whatever she wanted to say about how she fucked this person over or what an uncool person that girl was who once was her friend, she really didn't like me or anyone else calling her out for this shit.

This girl I'm talking about, and a former male friend with whom I ended our deal after many years of friendship, really expected people such as myself to just love them no matter how they behaved towards me and others around us, or what their general attitude displayed about themselves.  I can only conclude that people like this want, expect, and feel as if they are entitled to unconditional love.  Unconditional love only exists, in my mind, in the relationship from a parent to their child, typically.

I think this young woman whom I go on about might expect that kind of thing from me.  Now, she might not be the total freak about this kind of love that these former friends I describe were, but from me at least, yeah maybe.  She might be more realistic about the kinds of love she can receive from people such as her real boyfriends, though.  She might realize that she has to meet certain expectations in her relationships with people like that, but she might really, really expect total, unconditional love and acceptance from someone like me.  I'm not prepared to give such a person that kind of love anymore.
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