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I've got bigger fish to fry

11/5/2018

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Last week's posts frequently referred to the Unavailable Woman Deal that I feel I unwittingly signed on for with a young, attractive woman in a food service business that I frequented.  Briefly, the deal was this: I tried to bend over backwards to accommodate her and her spirit in my being in order to come up with a resolution that benefited us both as well as those around us, and in exchange for my efforts, she got to do whatever the hell she wanted.  

I decided to opt out of this deal.  But, let me make one thing perfectly clear: she can still do whatever the hell she wants.  She can associate with whomever she pleases, go anywhere she pleases, and do anything she pleases.  I merely opted out of my end of the deal.  In relation to me, she may as well reside on the other side of the Moon from me.  I don't patronize her place of employment anymore, and I don't plan to patronize her place of employment in the foreseeable future.  Call my change in my end of the deal the closest I will get to doing whatever the hell I want in these kinds of situations.

I've got bigger fish to fry.  In last week's posts I wrote about someone from my past who may still have issues with me.  I think I can say that I no longer try to hide behind the belief that my emotional pain over what happened so many years ago counts more than hers.  That's pretty new.  I'm ready to do whatever I believe it could take to at least let her know through a third party or directly to her that I will talk about any of that stuff that went on on my end of it.  If she does not wish to disclose much of anything on her end, I could live with that.  
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