For a good deal of my adult life, I've had a tendency to gravitate towards situations and individual women that invariably proved very difficult. The women usually possessed a lot of beauty and youth, and the difficult situation usually involved unavailability or unapproachability as principal features of the women and the situations. I'm trying to take a more compassionate course of action with myself these days, and just take it easy on myself and not try really hard to make things happen if I see a situation and an individual woman with these characteristics. I'm fifty-five years old, and beautiful twenty-one year old girls are not any easier for me to get with than they were when I was twenty-one myself. So, baby, it's not you, it's me.
I've thought about what I've just written up above and I want to add this. I've learned how to bail when courtship situations get too difficult for me. I figure the reason that such situations present difficulties that I can't get around or through or anywhere else has to do with the unavailability of the person. In every situation I can think of off the top of my head, it took more courage to let go than to hang on. And, in every situation I can think of off the top of my head, letting go of the love interest proved the right thing to do. So, for me, the skill I've learned these past several years, the skill of just getting the hell out, serves me better than just about any higher level skill I can think of regarding my relationship with women.
I'm putting anyone I should meet in the foreseeable future on notice; my skills at just up and quitting a situation are for their own good as well as mine. There's some women in my world I like, and I need not feel intimidated by the situations or dilemmas they may present, because I've really learned how to let go of difficult situations and women should it come to that. There's women I like and would like to get to know better, and knowing that I have the ability to let them go makes me feel better, and it helps me like them better.
I've thought about what I've just written up above and I want to add this. I've learned how to bail when courtship situations get too difficult for me. I figure the reason that such situations present difficulties that I can't get around or through or anywhere else has to do with the unavailability of the person. In every situation I can think of off the top of my head, it took more courage to let go than to hang on. And, in every situation I can think of off the top of my head, letting go of the love interest proved the right thing to do. So, for me, the skill I've learned these past several years, the skill of just getting the hell out, serves me better than just about any higher level skill I can think of regarding my relationship with women.
I'm putting anyone I should meet in the foreseeable future on notice; my skills at just up and quitting a situation are for their own good as well as mine. There's some women in my world I like, and I need not feel intimidated by the situations or dilemmas they may present, because I've really learned how to let go of difficult situations and women should it come to that. There's women I like and would like to get to know better, and knowing that I have the ability to let them go makes me feel better, and it helps me like them better.
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