My post from earlier today outlined my proposal to this very attractive young woman in my world. I offered her the Unavailable Woman Deal. The Unavailable Woman has me bending over backwards to accommodate her and I really, really try to work things out so that there is an outcome that benefits us both and that makes both of us happy. In exchange for my efforts, the other party gets to do whatever the hell they want.
Well, she can still do whatever the hell she wants. I've got no problem with this young woman doing whatever the hell she wants in relation to me. Especially since I have withdrawn from my end of the bargain. I just decided that there has to be more to dating and relationships with women than signing on for Unavailable Woman Deals.
I traced my mental and emotional activity that lead me to sign on for this deal with this particular young woman: She's one of the best looking women in my day to day environment-if not THE best looking. I decided to make it about her. I decided this deal was a go after some pretty minor interactions with her, and then I signed on for the classic Unavailable Woman Deal. An oldie but a goodie. But, as I realized today what I had done once again, I decided to withdraw from my end of the bargain. That is all.
Well, she can still do whatever the hell she wants. I've got no problem with this young woman doing whatever the hell she wants in relation to me. Especially since I have withdrawn from my end of the bargain. I just decided that there has to be more to dating and relationships with women than signing on for Unavailable Woman Deals.
I traced my mental and emotional activity that lead me to sign on for this deal with this particular young woman: She's one of the best looking women in my day to day environment-if not THE best looking. I decided to make it about her. I decided this deal was a go after some pretty minor interactions with her, and then I signed on for the classic Unavailable Woman Deal. An oldie but a goodie. But, as I realized today what I had done once again, I decided to withdraw from my end of the bargain. That is all.
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