Specifically, here I will present some stories that clearly illustrate that my performance in regards to this young woman in question met my own expectations, and how that means I can walk away with a clean conscience and not feel the need to capitulate to anyone's pressure to try to do more than I've already done. Oh well, I'll tell just one story. It's late and I want to lie down in bed.
Last fall I posted a picture of me giving the finger. I meant to imply that I wanted to give finger to this young woman in question. The post had to do with the notion that I did not care to buy into the idea that she liked me at the time. I remained skeptical that someone who had, in my belief, come at me in an adversarial manner initially, became converted to liking me and wanted to work things out. So, I posted a picture of me giving the finger. I got the impression that one or more parties at this person's place of employment thought that a low class move. So, I took the post down, and put some up saying that I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
In the weeks that followed, I posted stuff that tried to strike a similarly conciliatory tone. One post included a recommendation that people listen to two songs by the Jam, "Man In the Corner Shop," and, "Town Called Malice." Things looked okay, and I felt as if things could work out in some reasonable way with this young woman. I didn't know specifically what would happen or how things would work out, but the possibility of things going peacefully seemed in play.
Well, in early December, I got the impression things didn't go my way, in the dating sense, and that I was made to know about it for some reason. That's about all i have to say without going into specifics. Okay, so I just let go of any notion that I wanted to talk to this person or get to know them better, and the new year came, and I wondered in a post if this person even liked me. I then wrote the post about how it seemed to me as if myself and this young woman had come to a crossroads; a crossroads where I went my own way, and she could go her own way. Then the coronavirus emergency hit, and here we are.
A few weeks ago I get the impression that some female employees at this young woman's job thought I had done something wrong by going my own way. Okay. Well, here's the thing: My gesture of conciliation towards this young woman last Fall was good enough for me, even if it wasn't good enough for her. By my reckoning, if me and this young woman ever were to date, that SHOULD have been good enough to get things going, but it wasn't. I suppose she just found someone she liked better, and I suggest she do the same now, if she hasn't already done so.
Last fall I posted a picture of me giving the finger. I meant to imply that I wanted to give finger to this young woman in question. The post had to do with the notion that I did not care to buy into the idea that she liked me at the time. I remained skeptical that someone who had, in my belief, come at me in an adversarial manner initially, became converted to liking me and wanted to work things out. So, I posted a picture of me giving the finger. I got the impression that one or more parties at this person's place of employment thought that a low class move. So, I took the post down, and put some up saying that I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
In the weeks that followed, I posted stuff that tried to strike a similarly conciliatory tone. One post included a recommendation that people listen to two songs by the Jam, "Man In the Corner Shop," and, "Town Called Malice." Things looked okay, and I felt as if things could work out in some reasonable way with this young woman. I didn't know specifically what would happen or how things would work out, but the possibility of things going peacefully seemed in play.
Well, in early December, I got the impression things didn't go my way, in the dating sense, and that I was made to know about it for some reason. That's about all i have to say without going into specifics. Okay, so I just let go of any notion that I wanted to talk to this person or get to know them better, and the new year came, and I wondered in a post if this person even liked me. I then wrote the post about how it seemed to me as if myself and this young woman had come to a crossroads; a crossroads where I went my own way, and she could go her own way. Then the coronavirus emergency hit, and here we are.
A few weeks ago I get the impression that some female employees at this young woman's job thought I had done something wrong by going my own way. Okay. Well, here's the thing: My gesture of conciliation towards this young woman last Fall was good enough for me, even if it wasn't good enough for her. By my reckoning, if me and this young woman ever were to date, that SHOULD have been good enough to get things going, but it wasn't. I suppose she just found someone she liked better, and I suggest she do the same now, if she hasn't already done so.
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