In my last post I talked about how my dealings with Sara in 1988 taught me how to look out for the both of us. I don't think her interest in taking me down represented the best possible course of action for her. I showed her, myself, and everyone around us a better way as I stumbled upon a way for me to best look out for the both of us. I apply those lessons to women such as Sara all the way to these days, and I call such actions I take the Sara Template. The thing is, i had no other options that seemed as viable as refusing to chase her to the ends of the Earth and back and, when the day came, letting her go. Forget about dating, sex, love, girlfriends, relationships or anything like that. I really seemed to have no other viable choice but to teach myself how to let someone such as her go.
The legacy of that time seems to live on in rather unseemly ways. Namely, that my skillset in dealing with the cruel games these young women still want to play with me just seems to foster a gunfighter mentality in other young woman in my world. I first had dealings with a young attractive female employee at that business I talk about in 2014, and the pestering and games from other young, attractive female employees continued into these times, with this young woman I go on about representing the last person to want to take me on.
Again, the things I learned how to do in regards to Sara in 1988, and the insights I've gained, just seem to serve as a method for dealing with a very specific, very annoying type of pest. I"ve never dated someone who's come at me in this particular adversarial manner. But, I promise, I'll try in the foreseeable future to refrain from writing anything such a person as this young woman I go on about might construe as hurtful or hateful, just in case she still reads these posts.
The legacy of that time seems to live on in rather unseemly ways. Namely, that my skillset in dealing with the cruel games these young women still want to play with me just seems to foster a gunfighter mentality in other young woman in my world. I first had dealings with a young attractive female employee at that business I talk about in 2014, and the pestering and games from other young, attractive female employees continued into these times, with this young woman I go on about representing the last person to want to take me on.
Again, the things I learned how to do in regards to Sara in 1988, and the insights I've gained, just seem to serve as a method for dealing with a very specific, very annoying type of pest. I"ve never dated someone who's come at me in this particular adversarial manner. But, I promise, I'll try in the foreseeable future to refrain from writing anything such a person as this young woman I go on about might construe as hurtful or hateful, just in case she still reads these posts.
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