Years ago I decided that I wanted a relationship with someone who could give and receive love in a way that I could understand. I don't know if very attractive twenty year old girls really fill that bill, though. People who know more than I say that women get more complicated to a man as he ages, not less complicated. That would go doubly so for twenty year old girls to someone such as myself. I guess what I mean is, I would want to date someone who knows something of what they want more than a typical attractive twenty year old girl does.
My advice to this young woman, and anyone else her age, for that matter, would be to find someone closer to her age who has her best interests at heart, and whose only shortcomings mirror her own in regards to how they make mistakes in their respective journeys through life.
If this young woman feels misunderstood by me, then welcome to my world, my dear. It seems that a great deal of my adult life has consisted of clearing up misconceptions about me that those around me have had in regards to the mental place I was in and whether I intended to harm anyone or not. Again, this young woman doesn't seem hobbled by the stigma of mental illness, and a person closer to her own age might represent the best solution to any misconceptions one might have about her.