The last couple of posts might have given those out there the impression that I have some policy of going around telling beautiful young women that I kind of like to go fuck themselves. That's not it at all. That statement usually only comes after I've considered other possibilities, and I conclude that letting such a person know that they could go jump in the lake is the most intelligent decision that I can make.
It's true, I've never really dated an uberbabe type, and I'm getting up there in years, and that dream is looking pretty cheap these days. The only arc I've been able to generate with an uberbabe, goddess, call them what you will, was to make intelligent decisions about them. And, up to this point in my life, the most intelligent decisions I've ever made about such women was to cut them loose, let them go, call it what you will.
I first made a such a decision about such a woman in 1988 with Sara. In every major instance before then, the decision to let go of such a woman was always made for me- by the woman. The problem with that course of action, is that the shit could really hit the fan in major ways before it ever came to them making that decision. With Sara, if one were to find her these days, I doubt seriously that she could truthfully have any complaints about the way I treated her, or have any problems with how I let her go when I did.
The decision to cut such a woman loose comes when I decide that it is in both of our interests for me to do so. Sometimes I pick up a vibe that I'm making style points with other men when I make these decisions, but really, I don't get a lot of satisfaction for my ego when I make these decisions. Who wouldn't want to date an uberbabe/ goddess type? Letting such a person go amounts to the best possible course of action for me to take, not the most desired course of action, but the best course of action.
It's true, I've never really dated an uberbabe type, and I'm getting up there in years, and that dream is looking pretty cheap these days. The only arc I've been able to generate with an uberbabe, goddess, call them what you will, was to make intelligent decisions about them. And, up to this point in my life, the most intelligent decisions I've ever made about such women was to cut them loose, let them go, call it what you will.
I first made a such a decision about such a woman in 1988 with Sara. In every major instance before then, the decision to let go of such a woman was always made for me- by the woman. The problem with that course of action, is that the shit could really hit the fan in major ways before it ever came to them making that decision. With Sara, if one were to find her these days, I doubt seriously that she could truthfully have any complaints about the way I treated her, or have any problems with how I let her go when I did.
The decision to cut such a woman loose comes when I decide that it is in both of our interests for me to do so. Sometimes I pick up a vibe that I'm making style points with other men when I make these decisions, but really, I don't get a lot of satisfaction for my ego when I make these decisions. Who wouldn't want to date an uberbabe/ goddess type? Letting such a person go amounts to the best possible course of action for me to take, not the most desired course of action, but the best course of action.
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