I had some deal with a woman that I just got out of. The last two posts talked about the Unavailable Woman Deal, and this last deal certainly looked like one of those. I'm out, and I'm glad I'm out. Now what? Well, back when I would experience a more crash and burn outcome from the Unavailable Woman Deal, I would then try to rebound. I never had any success at rebounding- finding someone to date soon after these ordeals, I mean.
I believe that I would just come across to new women as needy and desperate in my efforts to rebound from these bad experiences, and I also seemed to make poor decisions about the women I chose to try to execute these rebound moves with. I would seem to choose another unavailable woman to try to rebound with. It was as if an unavailable woman angel would just move from body to body to body. So, rebounding is out. As I've said many times in my blog, most of my dealings with women have nothing to do with love, girlfriends, or relationships for or against. Most of my dealings with women have only to do with intelligent decision making. So, out with rebounding, in with intelligent decision making. If I make intelligent decisions about individual women in the first place, which I feel I did a couple of days ago, I will not feel as much of a need to rebound. That is all.
Update: So it seemed as if an unavailable woman angel would just move from body to body to body. I thought about that statement just now. It seems just as true today as it seemed about the older days. A post last week talked about how I seem to have to make decisions about one woman after another after another, and how the decision seems to invariably consist of deciding to let them go. So, the world still hasn't changed for me on that front. I'm the only one that's changed. I cannot emphasize how often I think of my dealings with Sara in the Spring of 1988, and how thinking of those times seems to emotionally prepare me for the harsh realities about women I'm attracted to these days.
I believe that I would just come across to new women as needy and desperate in my efforts to rebound from these bad experiences, and I also seemed to make poor decisions about the women I chose to try to execute these rebound moves with. I would seem to choose another unavailable woman to try to rebound with. It was as if an unavailable woman angel would just move from body to body to body. So, rebounding is out. As I've said many times in my blog, most of my dealings with women have nothing to do with love, girlfriends, or relationships for or against. Most of my dealings with women have only to do with intelligent decision making. So, out with rebounding, in with intelligent decision making. If I make intelligent decisions about individual women in the first place, which I feel I did a couple of days ago, I will not feel as much of a need to rebound. That is all.
Update: So it seemed as if an unavailable woman angel would just move from body to body to body. I thought about that statement just now. It seems just as true today as it seemed about the older days. A post last week talked about how I seem to have to make decisions about one woman after another after another, and how the decision seems to invariably consist of deciding to let them go. So, the world still hasn't changed for me on that front. I'm the only one that's changed. I cannot emphasize how often I think of my dealings with Sara in the Spring of 1988, and how thinking of those times seems to emotionally prepare me for the harsh realities about women I'm attracted to these days.
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