I've just spent a lot of time thinking about love matters large and small. For me, right now, because I don't feel I have the energy or inclination to go into everything I've thought about this morning, it comes down to this: I expect myself to function as my main provider of personal happiness. Whomever I select as a love interest, sex partner, girlfriend, spouse etc., whether now or in the future, I don't expect them to shoulder the burden of making me happy. I have my problems, god knows, and I don't expect a person I care for to solve them to the extent that I can if I put my mind to it. I got this concept from Feeling Good. David Burns says something like; making oneself the one responsible for one's happiness provides that person with the most reliable resource for that goal.
Write something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview.