I've said many times that I've quit smoking, drinking, drugs, and pursuing unavailable women. That last one represents a really tough one, because that project evolves and grows, and now represents the most challenging thing of those four things to abstain from. I've talked often about a certain young woman in my world, and I count her on my radar since, at least, the beginning of June of last year. I truly do not think I've pursued her romantically in any way, but all of this writing about her, plus whatever has gone on in the real world, amounts to one hell of a cat and mouse game, I reckon.
The fact that this cat and mouse game endures to this day, with no real resolution to the conflict, indicates to me that this young woman is not available, I'm pretty sure. I hope that my latest move, to not patronize her business when I think she might work there, plus suggest that she hang out with my friend out on the town where I might run into her, amounts to myself drawing a line in the sand. That kind of setting boundaries can really help me in letting go of such a person. I remember putting a Facebook friend request in for a young woman a couple of years ago, and the fact that she did not accept it made all of her subsequent flirtations with me whenever I'd see her meaningless. I hope, I hope, I hope this works. Like I said, I think God's giving me plenty of chances to get these Unavailable Women Deals right, and I see this as an opportunity to let this person go.
The fact that this cat and mouse game endures to this day, with no real resolution to the conflict, indicates to me that this young woman is not available, I'm pretty sure. I hope that my latest move, to not patronize her business when I think she might work there, plus suggest that she hang out with my friend out on the town where I might run into her, amounts to myself drawing a line in the sand. That kind of setting boundaries can really help me in letting go of such a person. I remember putting a Facebook friend request in for a young woman a couple of years ago, and the fact that she did not accept it made all of her subsequent flirtations with me whenever I'd see her meaningless. I hope, I hope, I hope this works. Like I said, I think God's giving me plenty of chances to get these Unavailable Women Deals right, and I see this as an opportunity to let this person go.
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