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Catch you on the b-side?

7/5/2021

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 In my last post I talked about that virgin girl from 2014/15.  I busted her pretty good in January of 2015, and by February of that year she showed visible signs of pregnancy.  I figured that she wanted to lose her virginity to the guy who impregnated her, and to top it all off, she tried to play some cruel kiss off game with me.  Now that's some game going on there!  Like I said in my last post, I never did anything to sabotage my deal with her, she was just never there for me.

I think about someone such as that virgin girl whenever I find myself embroiled in a situation that feels very similar.  Since I never did anything to sabotage our deal, could I conceivably catch one such as her on the b-side?  What if her relationship with the father of her child didn't work out?  Maybe then.  I've never had anything like that happen for me, but I guess something like that conceivably could happen.

I've had instances where someone demonstrated interest long after I'd let them go, and that's the closest I've come.  In every instance, the women I felt compelled to let go of stayed let go of, period.  In the instance of Gwen at SVA in 1991, she clearly desired that I let her go the previous semester, and when she showed interest the following Spring, I had moved onto another fruitless fixation.  In a couple of instances in later years, inertia and the passage of lots of time just compelled me to blow off a couple of women who seemed to want me to make some sort of move on them when they stopped me in a grocery store and a video store, respectively.

So, someone such as that virgin girl or other turd who wanted to try to get something going with me looong after the fact would probably have to take the initiative in the initial loooong-after-the-fact encounter (Getting me to jump through hoops? Guess again), get some sort of contact info, perhaps even persist in their course of action for quite some time, and even then, they may just make a pest of themselves.  It may come off as if they are a whole different person than the one I had the fixation on, and that person may or may not interest me.

I've gone on dates  with women for the first time who first showed interest in me years before those first dates, but in the case of that virgin girl and her ilk, not really.  The premise in play with that virgin girl and her ilk resided in the notion that the attraction had a clear one-sided direction, from me towards them.  

I guess I can't totally rule out the notion that one of these girls at this one business who all seemed so intent on making me look like an asshole COULD, MAYBE get something going with me loooong after the fact.  I usually come off as pretty nice, and I can't think of anyone from that era whom I would refuse to talk to, but yeah, I'm not holding my breath on that.









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