I posted a few weeks ago about barking up the wrong tree. I said I wanted to make it my goal for the rest of the year to refrain from casting about for a love interest. I consider that a worthy goal. Such a goal might not seem like much of anything to a lot of people, but it actually proves challenging to someone such as myself who would normally try find some woman to connect with at all times. This kind of impulse made going out on the town for fun and relaxation a bit of a drag, because the never-ending hunt for a love interest, sex partner, whatever, took all the fun out of just gong to see some bands or going to a party or whatnot. Back in my twenties I would concentrate on drinking when I couldn't find someone to glom onto. I would concentrate on drinking when I could find someone to glom onto.
How does one go about "connecting" with a woman out in public? My go-to move, to connect with a woman in my mind, was to look at her. Then looking would become staring, and oh, there goes the love connection! So, first, I try not to stare, then I try to not judge an event such as a music show at a club or a party on whether there are attractive women to "connect with" (stare at). Yeah, staring at attractive young women has been a lifelong habit of mine that I'm still working on.
So, yeah, refraining from staring at women and refraining from casting about for a love interest from amongst the women in my world occupies me these days, mentally at least. Anyhoo, I must be doing something right, because I've completed some demanding creative projects such as shooting videos, the latest examples one can find on my You Tube 2 channel (link in menu bar on this page), and completing the illustrations of my latest Richy Vegas Psychoverse book. I posted the cover art below.
How does one go about "connecting" with a woman out in public? My go-to move, to connect with a woman in my mind, was to look at her. Then looking would become staring, and oh, there goes the love connection! So, first, I try not to stare, then I try to not judge an event such as a music show at a club or a party on whether there are attractive women to "connect with" (stare at). Yeah, staring at attractive young women has been a lifelong habit of mine that I'm still working on.
So, yeah, refraining from staring at women and refraining from casting about for a love interest from amongst the women in my world occupies me these days, mentally at least. Anyhoo, I must be doing something right, because I've completed some demanding creative projects such as shooting videos, the latest examples one can find on my You Tube 2 channel (link in menu bar on this page), and completing the illustrations of my latest Richy Vegas Psychoverse book. I posted the cover art below.
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