The last couple of posts brought up someone in my world I'm fond of. I've concluded that my aborted attempt to level some incendiary accusation against this person represented a material manifestation of how I did not feel sufficiently loved by this individual. In effect, my paranoid thought processes about what I thought might be going on with her materialized in the form they materialized because I didn't feel loved by her.
I guess a good explanation of why I didn't feel loved by her might be because she doesn't love me. That doesn't mean I want to hurt her feelings with some wild, angry, paranoid accusation, though.
I guess my circumspect, thoughtful response earns me the freedom to blow that whole deal off for quite some time. I managed to talk myself back from the ledge pretty good, alright. Now there's a whole world from that ledge on back that I can wander around in that doesn't have anything at all do with her and hers if I so choose, and I do so choose.