I'll state the obvious (to many) right off and say that the former cashier that looked like a possibility some weeks ago didn't go my way after all. I think I showed a lot of bravery in questioning the whole premise of her supposed attraction to me to the extent that I questioned it. When the pivotal moment came, and there she stood in person, I just wanted to see what would happen if I blew her off then and there, and in doing just that, I did the right thing. She could have said "HI" to me at that moment, but she didn't, and we came to a parting of the ways.
The most counter-productive, disruptive thing I could do at this time would consist of casting about for a love interest from amongst the most attractive women in my world. For me, this would mean looking to the waitress/ barista/ grocery store employee types who inhabit my day to day routines. In a misguided attempt to rebound from my experience of these last several weeks, my mind can latch on to the most attractive of these types, and try to make it all about them. Nope! That is all.
The most counter-productive, disruptive thing I could do at this time would consist of casting about for a love interest from amongst the most attractive women in my world. For me, this would mean looking to the waitress/ barista/ grocery store employee types who inhabit my day to day routines. In a misguided attempt to rebound from my experience of these last several weeks, my mind can latch on to the most attractive of these types, and try to make it all about them. Nope! That is all.
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