Well, I think my last post proves what I’ve been on about for years, because I now feel as if I know that former cashier better than I ever would have known her if I had ever chased her to the ends of the earth and back. I’ve written it here and said it to some people in life. I’ve said, when I like someone, I want to get to know them better, and I know I will never get to know anything about someone such as that former cashier by chasing her to the ends of the earth and back. I said in my last blog post that I think that former cashier may have never had an experience of taking proactive steps to let someone go that she had mixed feelings about. I theorized such an opinion after observing how she seemed unable to let go of our deal in the wake of my proactive steps to cut her loose.
I still like her. With my revelation I outlined in my last post, I find that my frustration over her attempts to torment me from afar has evaporated. My whole approach to women such as her comes from many years of mental and emotional instability that I can attribute to my hangups with women such as her. Cutting her off at the knees, so to speak, works so much better for me than trying to be a good guy and work things out with her. Being a good guy and trying to work things out can just serve as another term for mindless, obsessive pursuit. Cutting her off at the knees, figuratively speaking, may sound ruthless, but is it really? Is cutting her off at the knees any worse than her attempts to torment me from afar? Well, yeah, I guess there’s such a thing as fighting fire with fire. Mind you, this is someone I LIKE, but that doesn’t mean I’d ever want to date her, and I’ve arrived at THAT conclusion from my years-long effort to get to know her better in ways that DON’T involve mindless, obsessive pursuit.
I still like her. With my revelation I outlined in my last post, I find that my frustration over her attempts to torment me from afar has evaporated. My whole approach to women such as her comes from many years of mental and emotional instability that I can attribute to my hangups with women such as her. Cutting her off at the knees, so to speak, works so much better for me than trying to be a good guy and work things out with her. Being a good guy and trying to work things out can just serve as another term for mindless, obsessive pursuit. Cutting her off at the knees, figuratively speaking, may sound ruthless, but is it really? Is cutting her off at the knees any worse than her attempts to torment me from afar? Well, yeah, I guess there’s such a thing as fighting fire with fire. Mind you, this is someone I LIKE, but that doesn’t mean I’d ever want to date her, and I’ve arrived at THAT conclusion from my years-long effort to get to know her better in ways that DON’T involve mindless, obsessive pursuit.
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